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Crawl-watch ’08

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (1)·   March 31st, 2008

Rebecca wants so badly to crawl, and she’s getting closer every single day. I’d bet she makes it there in under 10 days. She gets in plank position, she gets on all fours. She pushes with her feet, she reaches out with her arms. She has all of the necessary components, it’s just a question of putting them all together. She has even taken one or two single “steps” forward, but no farther.

One thing she’s quite good at is rotating in place. The other day, I managed to catch photos of her going the full 360 degrees on her tummy. So, for your viewing pleasure, a slideshow (with, um, a bunch of pictures of the back of her head. Sorry, I suck).

Rebecca 360

(I do have a video camera, and will torment you all with video clips just as soon as my new computer arrives and I can actually get the clips off of said camera. In the meantime, slideshows courtesy of iPhoto will have to suffice. Cut me some slack, it’s my first one…)

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Categories : Child Development, Infants
Tags : crawling, Gross motor

Goodbye, Graco

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (1)·   March 31st, 2008

IMG_0247 Another day, another milestone in my house! Saturday, after returning home from our new Sign & Sing class, I removed our trusty Graco SnugRide carseat bases from the minivan. I had been leaving the seats themselves in the car for the last week or so. It has just become too heavy and cumbersome to lug them in and out of the house with the babies in them. While the kids aren’t particularly close to the stated size limits (22lbs and/or 29in), it just felt like time to be done with them. Maybe if I had just one kid I’d hold onto it longer… but not with two.

[As an aside, I can't imagine purposefully getting one of the seats with even higher size limits... not only are the seats, themselves, even heavier, but lugging a 30-lb baby around in a carrier?! Good lord!]

This also, of course, means saying a fond farewell to our Double Snap N Go. Ah, the Snap N Go. My constant companion. You just can’t beat having a carseat stroller frame. It literally was used almost every day. It has gotten to the point, though, that I have sort of a love-hate relationship with it. Convenient and essential though it was, it also drives like a bus and can be kind of awkward and clunky.

IMG_0256 Taking the place of the old equipment are two Britax Marathons (purchased on sale from Amazon.com last month, at a better price than Babies R Us, even with the twin discount), which are enormous but should last us a good 3+ years. For the stroller, we’ve been using our Peg-Pérego Aria Twin off and on all along, but now it’s the primary go-to set of wheels. The best part about it is that it’s quite lightweight. The downside, as is the case with many standard strollers, is that it can’t handle much more than flat, dry, unobstructed pavement. I’m not much of an outdoorsy-type, but I do like to take nice walks and could see the benefit of a more terrain-friendly stroller. So, I’m stalking Craigslist to see if I can find something (the Mountain Buggy Urban Double, if I’m lucky) for a more reasonable price than the $650+ for a new one.

Daniel & Rebecca are outgrowing (physically and developmentally) a bunch of things recently. The swing hasn’t been used in nearly two months, bouncy seats even longer. And today, we wave goodbye to their main mode of transport for the last eight months. In truth, we’ll use them once more when we fly to Florida in two weeks, but that’s the last of it. I have an email partially composed, ready to send to my MOT club listserv, to unload all of this baby gear on someone else. It has been good to us, and it’s all still in darn good condition, but I’m ready to see it go. There’s plenty of other stuff taking up space in our house right now.

If I sit and think about it, it’s a little bit bittersweet to think that my babies aren’t such little babies anymore. I think about how tiny they used to be in those carseats they’re now outgrowing. I think about how the Snap N Go was a lifesaver, that I wouldn’t have been able to leave the house without it in those early weeks and months. But then I remember what those first weeks and months were like. And I quickly snap out of it and remember how much happier I am now, with fun and nearly-mobile eight-month-olds, than in the hazy, hellish days of eight-week-olds. Yeah… see you later, newborn stuff!

Cross-posted at How Do You Do It?

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Categories : Infants, Milestones, Out and about, Stuff, stuff, and more stuff
Tags : baby gear, carseats

Sign & Sing

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (2)·   March 30th, 2008

Yesterday we started our Sign & Sing class! It’s a 10-week series to help learn sign language with the kids. Not only do I think it’s a good thing to learn as far as language development and improved communication, but it’s also a fun outing for all of us to do together. Joining groups and taking classes is not usually M’s thing. I’m definitely more of the extrovert, more likely to seek out activities and things. But he likes the idea of sign language, and we agree that it’s not the kind of thing that would be very effective for me to go learn it on my own and then come back and show him. Plus, I’ve really been itching for something that all four of us can go out and do together on the weekends. We’re kind of homebodies, and also end up doing a lot of baby hand-offs on the weekend (i.e. he hangs out with them while I go to the store, etc). That works in some ways, but I wanted something that was fun and out of the house for all four of us.

The class was great! It’s not too early in the morning for Mr. Not-a-morning-person, starting at 11:45. Makes for a slightly tricky afternoon nap situation, but it’s alright. There were a total of six babies in the class. I was worried that we’d have the youngest ones, as the stated age range for the class is 8-24 months. Thankfully, they’re almost all around 8 months, with the oldest being 11 months! Whew. And, lucky for M, there’s even two other dads there! That was my other worry, but I think the fact that it’s a Saturday helped us. Anyways, most of the signs are done in the context of a song (as the name of the class might suggest), which seems to be fun for the kids and helps the adults remember the signs. There were toys to play with, and the big hit of the day, bubbles. At 45 minutes long, it was just enough to keep their interest, and end before they totally lost it.

Language is a funny thing. You think to yourself that it’ll be plenty just to learn maybe 3-5 new signs, that it would be hard enough to remember that many. But when I look back and remember all of the words we did, it was closer to 15-20! Hello, happy, here, mom, dad, bear, mountain, see, what, music, more, all done, silly, clown, ball, jumping, blocks, bubbles, high, low, sky, goodbye… many of them are obvious and intuitive, and the teacher had some good cues and associations to help the rest make sense. I think the trick now is to make signing a habit, something that I just do, without having to think to much about doing it on purpose. We’ll see how it goes.

IMG_0252 Anyways, after the class, we decided to be bold and go get lunch (plus, it was 12:45 and we were hungry). We walked down to a casual burger joint, grabbed sandwiches, and had a nice time. Daniel got fussy, so we fed him, but otherwise it went pretty well. Especially given that it was rather past their normal nap time. I definitely enjoyed the family-of-four outing, and I think M did, too. I think it’s good for him to do things like this, because while I’m used to being out and about with the kids, he doesn’t do that as much. I think it helps him get a sense of what they’re (and we’re) capable of, and what their (our) limits are.

A good time was had by all, and this will be our Saturday morning until early June! Wow!

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Categories : Child Development, Infants, Learning/Classes, Out and about
Tags : Language, mom and baby classes, sign language

Early morning update

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (4)·   March 28th, 2008

Whew! *knock on wood*, it appears to have been a short-lived phenomenon. I definitely heard Daniel around 4:45-5:00 this morning, and decided I was not getting up unless he sounded like he was in distress. Next thing I remember is him chatting/squawking at the much more reasonable hour of 6:30. I’m pretty sure he quieted down at 5:00 and went back to sleep, but early-morning cognitive function for me is a little fuzzy. Either way, we started the day at 6:30 this morning, which makes me feel 100 times better. Hooray!

Because New England likes to kick you in the ass just as soon as you’re starting to get hopeful, it’s about 38 degrees with a predicted “wintry mix” all day today. Awesome. Some day it will be spring, so they tell me.

On the plus side, we start our sign language class tomorrow! Hooray for an outing for all four of us. I hope we all enjoy it. My kids will likely be the youngest in the class (stated age range is 8-24 months, my kids will be 8 months next week), but I’m hoping it skews toward the younger end of the range and it’s not a bunch of almost-2-year-olds. We shall see…

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Categories : Infants, Sleep
Tags : early morning

WTF?

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (3)·   March 27th, 2008

Can someone tell me what the deal is with 4:45 in my house?! Yep, two mornings in a row.

Yesterday morning was a nightmare. When last I wrote, Daniel had gone down for a nap at the ridiculous hour of 7AM. I put Rebecca down at 7:45. Not two minutes later, Daniel was up. I was practically in tears. An hour later he finally went back down for maybe another 45 minutes. The 45-minute trick is usually Rebecca’s, but at least she took a decent hour-and-a-half nap. When Daniel was (more than) ready for his afternoon nap at noon (also on the early side), I was worried. It could have gone either way… either a day of crappy cat-naps, or he’d crash. Thankfully, he crashed and slept for 2 1/2 hours, and the afternoon was significantly better than the morning.

But now, here we are again!! As yesterday’s strategy was not particularly successful, I figured I’d try something different. At 4:45, Daniel was talking and Rebecca was crying. I got Rebecca back to sleep, Daniel clearly was not going down. Talking degraded into crying. I made sure he wasn’t stuck in a corner, and decided to leave him be. Of course, he just kept screaming. After a while (and him becoming louder and louder), I thought I’d try to bring a bottle upstairs, feed him in the dark, and sit in the rocking chair with him. I know, it’s like the anti-Ferber, but it seemed worth a try. Well, he was calmer, but he didn’t got to sleep. Still, I figured I’d stay quiet in the dark until 6. So, here we are again. We’ll see what happens today.

But honestly, WTF is up with the 4:45 wake-up? What changed? Bedtime is the same as it always was (about 7pm). It’s not like it’s light outside that early, and they have room-darkening shades, anyways. No idea. I just hope it’s a phase that will pass quickly…

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Categories : Infants, Sleep
Tags : early morning

Not a good start to the day

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (3)·   March 26th, 2008

Sadly, you can’t talk reason to a seven-month-old.

Daniel was awake at 4:45 this morning, and fully refused to even consider going back to sleep. Fine, great. 5:15, we’re downstairs. Good times. At 5:45 I went up to get Rebecca, because I was not going to have them start the day more than an hour off from one another. While I know plenty of people say never to wake a sleeping baby… when there’s two, you do what you must to preserve the schedule, or the entire day is shot to hell.

So, I get Rebecca up. Fine. By 6:30AM, Daniel is (surprise!) exhausted and melting down. 6:30!! Come on, now! You’re killing me. By 7 I could not do anything more for him, and put him down for a nap. At seven o’clock in the fricking morning. When our usual morning nap starts between 8:30 and 9:00. Why do I feel like he’s the one who got up at 4:45, but I’m the one being punished? I wanted so badly to explain to him that he would have been much, much happier if he had just gone back to sleep at 4:45, but he wasn’t having it.

And, of course, Rebecca is wide awake. Greeaaat. I’m going to try to put her down between 7:45 and 8:00, and hope that I’m not totally screwed. I hate these days.

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Categories : Infants, Sleep
Tags : early morning

Three cheers for babysitters

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (3)·   March 25th, 2008

You know where I am right now?  At a sandwich shop/cafe that has free wireless internet, vegging out.  You know where my kids are right now?  At home, playing with the babysitter.  Ahhh…

My sitter is great. She’s a senior at one of the nearby colleges. She comes up three afternoons a week so that I can run errands, go to the gym, or otherwise just get out of the house on my own.  She gets a total kick out of my kids, and swears it’s the best study break ever invented.  As for me, it’s so lovely to be out and not have carseats and babies that need entertaining. And when I get home, I’m just a little bit refreshed and recharged. It’s definitely a bit of an indulgence for someone who doesn’t work outside of the home, but it’s totally worth it. It lets me be a better mom.

Today, I was tempted to use the sitter time to just climb into bed and take a nap, but I decided to get out of the house instead.  I’m a little out of sorts, as we’re having to do a little re-Ferberizing in my house, so I’ve been a little lacking in the sleep department.  But aside from some middle-of-the-night unhappiness, the kids are otherwise doing quite well.

Not much else to report, and my two hours of freedom is starting to run short.  It’s not a lot, but it’s just what I need.  I sure did miss her when she was on Spring Break last week, and I don’t know what I’ll do when she graduates!  At least we have a few more months left…

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Categories : Making life easier
Tags : babysitter

Why we love BJ’s

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (10)·   March 24th, 2008

There is a reason why all of the moms of infant twins in my area know about and love BJ’s, our local warehouse shopping club. While it’s handy to be able to purchase enormous boxes of diapers & wipes, and a pallet of giant cans of formula, that’s not the only reason. We love BJ’s, especially in the winter, because they provide a great outing. Big space, good people watching, and as soon as your kids are big enough…

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The double-seat shopping cart. Finally, something that seems like it was made just for us.

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Categories : Infants, Making life easier, Out and about
Tags : shopping

You’re lucky, wee man

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (0)·   March 23rd, 2008

… and your little sister, too.

OK, enough mixing metaphors movie quotes. Seriously, my kids are lucky that we have out-of-town guests staying with us this weekend, or they’d be straight back on the Ferber bandwagon. For us, Ferberizing and good sleep are a question of sticking with good habits and avoiding bad ones. Just like when you’re on a diet and things are going well, at some point you start to slip up. Get a little lazy, inch back towards your old ways. This is what has happened to us. It started with our trip to California, where we were a little more willing to do whatever it took to get the kids to sleep, instead of just letting them cry it out. And while Daniel has largely continued to sleep quite well through the night, Rebecca has started waking more. She’s also gotten into the habit of only taking 2-3 ounces of her bedtime bottle, and then wakes up hungry some number of hours later.

The last two nights, she has woken at 3:30AM and more or less not gone back to sleep. With guests in the next room, I wasn’t going to let her cry it out, so I picked her up and rocked with her, but every time I tried to put her back in her crib, she woke up. I brought her into bed with us out of desperation, but even then she was unsettled. While she managed to doze on and off a bit, yours truly was awake. Lovely. Today, Daniel woke up too, and had no interest in returning to sleep. So, at 5AM, we came down and started the day (after trying to get them back to sleep for an hour). Needless to say, I am not a happy mommy right now. It’s dark, I’m tired, and I’m frustrated. The kids are kind of crabby, because though they don’t want to go to bed, they haven’t slept enough. And, WTF do I do about the morning nap? I’m trying to hold them off as close to “regular” nap time as I can so that the rest of my day isn’t completely shot, but it’s not even 6:30 and I don’t know how much longer they’ll last. Ugh.

Sleep and my kids appears to be a pretty slippery slope. They’re clever, and will notice and try to exploit variations in the routine pretty quickly. Cry-it-out really seems to be the right method for them (or me?), because otherwise, one attempt at intervention leads to another and another, until I’m doing some crazy one-legged dance in the hopes they’ll go back to sleep, and they’re wide awake, watching the nutty mommy show.

While I would usually advocate starting Ferberizing on a Friday night so you’ve got the whole weekend, I think I may insist that we go for it tonight, a Sunday. Because you know what? I’m not sleeping, anyways. Might as well be working towards a goal instead of another week of me spinning on my head, trying to get the kids back to sleep.

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Categories : Infants, Sleep
Tags : Ferberize, Overnight, sleeping through the night

Location change

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (2)·   March 22nd, 2008

DSC_0020 Since the kids are sitting up reasonably well on their own these days, and because the splashing in the infant tub was getting completely out of hand, we’ve moved baths up to the “real” bathtub! It’s not an ideal setup, as our bathroom has kind of an odd layout, and we have sliding doors instead of a shower curtain. That may have to change, since it makes for a relatively small portion of the bath that we can actually use. But it’s a fun development, nonetheless. And Daniel definitely seemed to enjoy himself, splashing away with the washcloth. My kids are getting so big, so fast!

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Categories : Infants, Milestones, Photos
Tags : bathtime
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