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Books On Demand

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (7)·   October 10th, 2008

When the kids were really little, I worried that I wasn’t reading to them enough.  M and I both love to read, and I was an especially big bookworm as a child.  We definitely wish the same thing for our kids, even if it means too many batteries for the flashlight when they’re reading past their bedtime again.  But when they were, oh, eight weeks old, and someone in one of my new moms classes claimed that their child “loved books,” I about died.  Crap, now I have to find time to read to them, too?! In those crazy, survival days of the first few months, it was pretty low on my list.  But I felt guilty.  What if I don’t read to them enough, and then they don’t love books? Yeah.  Whatever.

Eventually we started reading more.  We worked it into our routine, they started to actually smile and laugh and enjoy it.  By 11 or so months old, you could find Rebecca sitting on the floor next to the shelves in the playroom.  She’d pull one book after another out of her shelves, and carefully flip through the pages of each one.  Daniel enjoys his stories, too (you should hear him go “sssssss” when we get to the quiet old lady whispering ‘hush’ in Goodnight Moon).  But Rebecca is our resident bookworm.

Now, though, she has figured out that if you bring a book to Mommy (or Daddy, or whoever is there), she will read it to you. It’s her new favorite thing.  She brings me book after book, and stands in front of me, bouncing with anticipation, until I start reading.  If I take too long (or am still reading the first book she brought me), she makes it known that she is quite displeased.  I have to remember to tell her to “sit down please” before I start reading, or I’ll get about two pages in and she’ll be off getting the next story.

Hand picks an apple, hand picks a plum. Dum ditty dum ditty dum dum dum.

You’re too small for basketball, unless you play with someone tall.

I see a purple cat looking at me.

It’s quiet now, what do you say?

I’ve memorized them all, it seems.  And Rebecca’s getting close.  She anticipates some of the animal sounds, and gleefully points out the mouse on every page, or the monkey, or the dog, or the duck.  My little bookworm. So, for those who may be saying “are you kidding me? When would I find time to read to my newborn?!”  Fear not.

[And how many of you out there instantly knew which four books are the playroom favorites?]

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Categories : Child Development, Toddlers
Tags : Cognitive, Language, Social/emotional

Check that box

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (7)·   October 1st, 2008

The kiddos continue their developmental progress, with new bits and pieces seemingly every day. As a mom, of course, you can’t help but worry.  I found a developmental checklist the other day from an Early Intervention service provider, and I thought I’d take a look.  As to be expected, they’re “ahead” on some things, and there are others that they don’t yet do that they arguably should.

One thing that is always on lists that has always bugged me is clapping.  In the child development class I took back in the spring, here were all of these 9-month-olds clapping.  My kids?  Yeah, not so much.  But, then, I suppose I don’t clap a lot in front of them, so whatever.  I tried doing it more.  No interest.  It’s a small thing, and they seem to be doing well otherwise on fine and gross motor stuff, but it was this little thorn that kept bugging me.

Last night, all of a sudden, Daniel started clapping.  I encouraged him, he kept going.  Wohoo!  Did other things for a few minutes, tried again – more clapping!  Yay!  M called on his way home from work and I let him know of this new trick.  As I was telling him that Daniel could do it… Rebecca walked up and with a look of “oh, sure, so that’s what we’re doing now?”, she started clapping, too.  Even better, a few minutes later, I simply said “clap,” without demonstrating or even really looking at them, and clap they did.  Wohoo!  Motor skills and language comprehension!  I tried again this morning, and it was no fluke.  We have clappers.  Whew, check off that box.  [I'll try to get a picture later today. Daniel is so entertained by clapping, it's frigging adorable.]

In other developmental news:

Daniel is taking a few steps at a time, now many times a day.  Sometimes it takes a bit of encouragement, and sometimes he just decides to do it on his own.  He has such a great excited, proud smile on his face when he does it.  He’s still a little unsure and unsteady, but he’s getting there quickly.  He’s also gotten very good at figuring out how to climb on one thing to get at something higher.  Such as climbing on Daddy to get to the couch, or climbing on the new Ikea chairs to get on top of the new table.

Rebecca has also figured out the chairs-to-table bit, and every now and then I turn around to find her standing on top of the table.  There’s going to be a loud thud followed by screams in my near future.  Speaking of loud thuds and screams… both kids are getting better at the feet-first method of getting down from things like the couch.  But not all the time, and Daniel crawled himself right off of our bed the other day before naptime.  Thankfully he landed on the carpeted part, but the carpet ain’t that thick and he had a nice welt on his forehead.  Poor kiddo.  I saw it happen, but just couldn’t grab him in time.  And so many times he’s crawled near the edge and come right back… oh, we all have to have our bad mommy days, don’t we?

I wrote about speech development the other day for HDYDI, and since then I’ve noticed even more attempts at imitation of words.  Rebecca is very clearly trying to indicate “dog,” it’s just that she has a lot of words that sound like “da-da.”  But her comprehension is good.  When I ask her to find her bear or a ball, she gleefully finds the right thing most of the time.  Daniel, I swear to you, is now saying “light” in addition to signing it (it remains his only sign).  It sounds more like “yacht,” but he’s done it several times.  And for further proof that he really is M’s son… my mother-in-law informs me that “light” was his first word, too. Funny, huh?

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Categories : Child Development, Toddlers
Tags : Fine motor, Gross motor, Language

Cute as can be

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (5)·   August 15th, 2008

I haven’t been successful in capturing it on video, but I had to make note of some of my very favorite super-adorable things the kids do right now.

Daniel is a chatterbox, and I love his sweet little voice.  He’s got quite a range, going from gravelly to shrieking and practically yodeling, and sometimes just talking softly.  The yodeling is clearly for his own entertainment, he loves to make his voice do funny things.  When he’s climbing the stairs or otherwise moving and concentrating, he often does this funny, growling “word” that would probably be “Gof” if I tried to spell it.  But it almost sounds like he’s chewing something. It makes me laugh almost every time. Another “word” of his is “dob”.  As in “dob a-dob a-dob.”  No idea what it means, if anything, but it’s friggin adorable.  I also think that, at least 50% of the time that it seems like he’s waving, he’s actually making the sign for “light!”  One last thing: he apparently is part-dog.  He just loves carrying things around in his mouth when he crawls or climbs.

Rebecca, when she isn’t insisting that you help her walk, has become quite a little bookworm.  It has happened a number of times, but I’d say yesterday she sat for a solid 25 minutes, carefully turning the pages of one book or another.  This morning it was Pat the Bunny, and she took that little pointer finger, turned the page, and patted that darn bunny.  So small and perfect.  She also now makes funny faces just for the sake of being silly.  She kind of juts out her chin and puckers her lips, making kind of a funny “oooh” sound.  Silly girl.  And god help you if she decides she wants you to help her walk and you don’t get up fast enough.  Ooh, 12-month-old temper tantrum!

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Categories : Child Development, Photos, Toddlers
Tags : Cognitive, Fine motor, Gross motor, Language, Social/emotional

First word, sorta

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (6)·   July 5th, 2008

I think Rebecca is attempting her first bit of sign language.  Is it “mommy?”  “dog?” “more?”  Nah.  I think my daughter’s first word/sign is “fan.”  As in ceiling fan.  Not perfect form, of course, and you’d only recognize it if you’re really looking for it.  But if that girl sees a fan, that little hand goes up and starts twisting around.  I saw her do it with some prompting in our house, as there’s a ceiling fan in the room where we have the changing table.  But then she did it today at a store, totally out of nowhere.  She just looked up, saw the fan, and started twisting her little hand.

They’re full of imitation these days.  Raspberries are always a favorite, but you can also get Rebecca to do a little clicking sound with her tongue, and Daniel will work on emphasis with “ahhhhhAH.”  It’s a bathtime favorite.  But her quasi-recognizable sign for “fan” may be the first word connected consistently with its actual meaning.  Of course, it might be that she’s trying to tell me all sorts of things, like “da-da-da” means dog and “da-DA-DA-da” means “I prefer cheddar to mozzerella, thank you.”  But she’ll have to forgive me, I’m a little slow on the uptake.

But I’m going to go out on a limb and declare that my daughter’s first recognizable sign is, indeed, “fan.”  Now if she could just master “change my diaper,” we’d be in business.  I guess I have my motivation to keep signing to them, though.

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Categories : Child Development, Infants, Milestones
Tags : Language

Sign & Sing

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (2)·   March 30th, 2008

Yesterday we started our Sign & Sing class! It’s a 10-week series to help learn sign language with the kids. Not only do I think it’s a good thing to learn as far as language development and improved communication, but it’s also a fun outing for all of us to do together. Joining groups and taking classes is not usually M’s thing. I’m definitely more of the extrovert, more likely to seek out activities and things. But he likes the idea of sign language, and we agree that it’s not the kind of thing that would be very effective for me to go learn it on my own and then come back and show him. Plus, I’ve really been itching for something that all four of us can go out and do together on the weekends. We’re kind of homebodies, and also end up doing a lot of baby hand-offs on the weekend (i.e. he hangs out with them while I go to the store, etc). That works in some ways, but I wanted something that was fun and out of the house for all four of us.

The class was great! It’s not too early in the morning for Mr. Not-a-morning-person, starting at 11:45. Makes for a slightly tricky afternoon nap situation, but it’s alright. There were a total of six babies in the class. I was worried that we’d have the youngest ones, as the stated age range for the class is 8-24 months. Thankfully, they’re almost all around 8 months, with the oldest being 11 months! Whew. And, lucky for M, there’s even two other dads there! That was my other worry, but I think the fact that it’s a Saturday helped us. Anyways, most of the signs are done in the context of a song (as the name of the class might suggest), which seems to be fun for the kids and helps the adults remember the signs. There were toys to play with, and the big hit of the day, bubbles. At 45 minutes long, it was just enough to keep their interest, and end before they totally lost it.

Language is a funny thing. You think to yourself that it’ll be plenty just to learn maybe 3-5 new signs, that it would be hard enough to remember that many. But when I look back and remember all of the words we did, it was closer to 15-20! Hello, happy, here, mom, dad, bear, mountain, see, what, music, more, all done, silly, clown, ball, jumping, blocks, bubbles, high, low, sky, goodbye… many of them are obvious and intuitive, and the teacher had some good cues and associations to help the rest make sense. I think the trick now is to make signing a habit, something that I just do, without having to think to much about doing it on purpose. We’ll see how it goes.

IMG_0252 Anyways, after the class, we decided to be bold and go get lunch (plus, it was 12:45 and we were hungry). We walked down to a casual burger joint, grabbed sandwiches, and had a nice time. Daniel got fussy, so we fed him, but otherwise it went pretty well. Especially given that it was rather past their normal nap time. I definitely enjoyed the family-of-four outing, and I think M did, too. I think it’s good for him to do things like this, because while I’m used to being out and about with the kids, he doesn’t do that as much. I think it helps him get a sense of what they’re (and we’re) capable of, and what their (our) limits are.

A good time was had by all, and this will be our Saturday morning until early June! Wow!

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Categories : Child Development, Infants, Learning/Classes, Out and about
Tags : Language, mom and baby classes, sign language

Entertain me!

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (3)·   March 12th, 2008

My kids have entered a whole new phase. On the one hand, they’re a million times more fun than they were back in the dark days of 6-12 weeks. They interact, they smile, they laugh. They play with toys, they play with us. They think daddy is pretty funny. They think the dog is nothing short of hilarious. Sometimes they even find me amusing. But since I’m doing a one-woman show for the majority of our days, I’m feeling a bit of pressure to keep the hits coming. And the down side of this phase is the fact that they now seem to get bored. Oh dear.

Play groups help. Seeing other babies and other adults helps to amuse them, especially in those tricky late-afternoon hours. But outings are troublesome, especially in relation to the nap schedule. Going out before the morning nap, well that’s just not going to happen. I’m still in my PJs. Maybe, when it gets warmer, we’ll manage a short walk with the dog, but that’s it. In between the morning and afternoon nap is when we frequently have invitations to go somewhere, but it’s not always such a good thing. By the time they’re up from their nap, fed, packed in the car, and ready to go… it doesn’t leave a lot of time for much “playing.” And then, when we inevitably make a hasty exit due to tired meltdowns, they fall asleep in the car. Just long enough that, when they get home and wake up (as soon as I get them in the house, usually), they have no interest in “finishing” their early afternoon nap. And thus, the rest of our day is shot to hell, because their naps are all messed up and they’re tired. No, at this particular moment in their young lives, the ideal time for an outing seems to be about 3PM. Post-afternoon-nap, they’re fairly wide awake, but also likely to be nearing boredom. We go out, we are amused, and if they fall asleep in the car around 4:30PM, no problem. Just enough of a catnap to get them all the way to bedtime.

But still, I can only crash my friends’ houses so often. We need another kid-centered activity. And so, I’ve signed us up for two classes! This is at the same maternity center where I took my two new mom classes back in the fall. I felt a little burned out on them at the time, but I’m ready to have a regular outing at a baby-safe location. They both start in a few weeks.

The first class we’re doing is sort of a developmentally-centered playgroup/class. Babies in the class are about 6-8 months old (at the start of class), and there are age-appropriate activities like songs and parachutes, as well as some discussion with the facilitator and other moms about development (gross motor, language, etc.). It’s an hour long, and best of all, it’s at 3PM! It’s at a center slightly farther from my house, but I couldn’t pass up the time. All of the other classes were around noon or 1PM, which is just too much messing with the nap for me. Can’t wait.

And the second class, drumroll, is going to be all four of us. Yes, that’s right, M is actually going to come to a baby class. Don’t get me wrong, he’s a great dad, very involved, loves the kids more than anything. But let’s just say that joining groups is not really his thing. A few weeks ago, I took a single-session workshop with a friend of mine on Infant Signing. I knew I wanted to use sign language with my kids, but this gave some good suggestions for how to do it. My interest was piqued, and M thought it sounded cool, too. Since I have no interest in going to the class by myself and then having to pass along second-hand info, we found a Saturday class, and we’re all going. 10 weeks of sign language! It’s done with a lot of songs and games and things for the babies. Ours will probably be among the youngest in the class, but I’m not too concerned. It’s just as much for me and M to learn as anything else. But I hope we all like it, and I hope the kids take to it…

And now, I must run. Playgroup this afternoon! Thank goodness.

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Categories : Child Development, Infants, Learning/Classes, Making life easier, Out and about, Sleep
Tags : Language, mom and baby classes, Naps, sign language, Social/emotional

Leap-day Leapfrog

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (3)·   February 29th, 2008

I always find it fascinating that having two babies is like having your very own in-house study on differences in normal development. Two babies, growing up at the same time, with the same parents, in the same in-utero and post-utero environment, can still demonstrate the full range of “normal” (or abnormal, of course).

Generally speaking, Daniel tends to do a lot of things before Rebecca. Who on earth knows why, but there it is. He’s bigger, he pushed her out of the way in-utero to become baby A and greet the world first, and he seems to want to continue that trend.

What’s funny about that is the way he seems to leap-frog Rebecca on things. She seems to take her time, mastering each component of a new thing before putting it all together. Daniel will do none of these small steps, but as soon as I think Rebecca is going to do some “big” thing first, he jumps right over her and does it all the way. Is he watching her, figuring it out? I’m a little skeptical. But you just never know.

Case in point #1: rolling over. Rebecca was rolling from her back to her side for nearly two months while Daniel lay contentedly supine. Next thing I know, he’s rolling back to belly, and she’s still stuck on her side! Not for long, but still, Daniel got there first.

Case in point #2: language. Rebecca has been blowing raspberries for quite some time. All day long, thhhppphtttt. She thinks it’s hilarious, especially if you do it back to her. Daniel? No interest. Then, he gets two teeth. Suddenly I start hearing this quiet ttthhhhh coming from him. I suppose he’s trying to do Rebecca’s raspberries. He does that once or twice, and then, suddenly and clearly, that sound became a “d.” Just to prove his point, all day long yesterday, it was dadadadadada… Not to anything or anyone in particular, but honest-to-goodness babbling!

DSC_0010 He definitely showed interest in sitting before she did, as Rebecca would not bend in the middle for a while (just wanted to be standing, thank you). But she has caught up quickly, and they’re both making rapid gains in how long they can sit unsupported. Next up? *gasp* Crawling. Oh my lord, my house is so far from babyproofed. As soon as we start to see them itching to move, it’s going to have to be some major rearranging in my living room. I’m in no rush for that one!

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Categories : Child Development, Infants
Tags : Gross motor, Language

A non-Ferber post

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (3)·   February 17th, 2008

Though the sleep revolution is obviously the major focus in my house this weekend, there are other things afoot as well! An update…

Both kids are making great progress with sitting. Daniel is able to sit unsupported for longer periods of time, though we put a Boppy around him so he doesn’t bonk his head when he tips over. Rebecca is catching up quickly. For a long time she seemed unwilling to even bend in the middle. Now she actually seems to enjoy being in a sitting position and is trying to do it on her own.

Introducing food is going much better. We’ve set aside the sweet potatoes for a few days and have tried rice cereal. M actually discovered the trick. Since my kids both spit up a LOT, and sitting straight up in a high chair seems to make it worse, we’ve actually used the recline feature so they’re tipped back just a little. Less spitup, better at swallowing. They’re both doing well at it, and Rebecca finished a substantial portion of cereal this morning. I think we’ll try mixing in some sweet potatoes when we try again tonight. My stash of purees in the freezer is growing, now including sweet potatoes, acorn squash, butternut squash, and golden delicious apples. On deck to cook/puree/freeze today are Anjou pears and Asian pears. Then I think I’d better stop for a while… it’ll be some time before we’ve even introduced all of those, much less depleted our stores.

Daniel, I think, is starting to really babble! Since his two front teeth have been in, he has started putting his tongue at the front of his mouth and making a sort of “ttthhhh” sound. I thought he might be trying to imitate his sister’s spectacular raspberries. But yesterday, something interesting happened. That “tthhh” very clearly became a “d” sound! Lots of interesting new noises from Daniel all of a sudden. Rebecca prefers to blow loud, wet raspberries and cluck her tongue.

Rebecca sitting on Daddy’s lap. (Yeah, probably watching Cash Cab.)

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Daniel has a whole new perspective on the playmat.

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Rebecca gets some rice cereal.

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Daniel is ready for his next bite.

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Categories : Child Development, Feeding, Infants, Photos
Tags : Gross motor, Language, Solids

Six Month Old Twins

By Goddess in Progress · Comments (2)·   February 3rd, 2008

Happy half-birthday to my beloved pair. It’s hard to believe. Sometimes August feels like forever ago, and other times it feels like yesterday. Six-month-olds used to seem so big and old to me, but now we’re here! It’s wild.

DSC_0002 Daniel, my first born, my big boy. We’ll see what Wednesday’s pediatrician visit brings, but I’m guessing he’s over 18 pounds. He’s so strong, stronger every day. Pushing with the legs, climbing, standing. Rolling over, sitting almost by himself. We used to call him Señor Fussy-Pants, but he’s now about the smiling-est damn thing you’ve ever seen. All day long, mouth open, tongue hanging out, drooling like a mad man. Smile goes ear to ear. When he’s happy and just checking things out, he has the sweetest, almost breathy voice, chatting away. When he’s not happy… so strong, squirming and fighting against the nap. That said, he also wins the award for first to sleep through the night, making it 11 hours twice in the last three days (and I think he’d have done it the 3rd night if Rebecca hadn’t woken him up). He seems to be quite the adventurous extrovert. Loves new people and new things, will smile at just about anyone (as long as he isn’t overdue for some sleep or food). Looks-wise, he has M’s slightly olive complexion, and is getting fairly dark hair. Those beautiful eyes have been dark brown since he was two weeks old.

DSC_0011 Rebecca, who held the baby A title for part of my pregnancy, got pushed to the side by her larger brother. No matter, 45 seconds later, my small-but-feisty girl came into the world. I thought she might make up for the size differential after she was born, but no, she’s still a good four pounds smaller than her brother. Not skinny or scrawny, just petite in every way. She’s only outgrowing the 0-3 month clothes on the basis of length. She also loves to stand up, and only recently started being willing to bend in the middle and try sitting. Mostly just content to hang out, happy pretty much all the time… until she’s hungry. Then she’s not shy about expressing her total disappointment with you, and the apparent snail’s pace at which you prepare her bottle. Lately she’s been all about the silly noises, sucking and clicking with her tongue and blowing raspberries for a good half hour straight. She seems more like M in the personality department, a little more introverted and reserved with new people and experiences. Not a big fan of crowds and noise. On the other hand, she has my fair skin, blue eyes, and… lighter hair. Doesn’t look entirely blonde, but it’s definitely not as dark as her brother’s.

It’s amazing to think of how different they are. Personality, interaction, sheer strength. From such little preemies/newborns to big babies starting to do things on their own. There have, no doubt, been some really hard parts. And I know there will be new hard parts to come. But on the whole, it is only getting better and more fun. Who knew I’d ever be so lucky?

At eight days old…

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…at six months old.

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Categories : Birthdays, Child Development, Infants, Sleep
Tags : Gross motor, Language, Social/emotional
   

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